Food for Thought...
The riddle is finally solved. Ahahh.
You just have to spend time with the people you love. You dont try to change them, you dont get annoyed because they dont behave how you want them to behave. You just got to put up with boredom or tantrums or repetitions and you just spend time with them. You have to have patience and just be there. Elderly parent or small children; its all the same. Just pass the time with them and then everyone will be happy, even yourself, in the end.
Hmmm.. my optimism rule. Heh.